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Benito's Story: Men's Behaviour Change Program
The Men’s Behaviour Change Program is a 20 week group program for men using family violence, with a focus on promoting family safety, respect and equality. Program delivery is available both online and in person.
‘Benito’, a father of two, was being emotionally abusive towards his wife and a Family Violence Intervention Order with limited conditions was put in place prohibiting him from using family violence (allowing him to remain living in the home). Benito was mandated to attend a Men’s Behavioural Change Program (MBCP) at Family Life. Both he and his wife also participated in family therapy.
Initially, Benito felt like a victim and thought others would criticise him. Over time, he saw the benefits of the group and realised that everyone, including himself, was learning from each other. He came to understand that his behaviour was unacceptable and how his actions affected his wife and daughters.
Benito used to yell so much that he would lose his voice, but now he and his wife communicate more effectively. His wife also noted an improvement in their relationship. Additionally, the therapist and parents spoke with their children (ages 10 and 12) about what Benito learned in the MBCP and his commitment to ending family violence.
The Men’s Behaviour Change Program and practitioner support Benito received were instrumental in creating a healthier environment for all family members.
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