Kuyenda kupatukana tchuthi

Nthawi ya Khrisimasi ndi tchuthi iyenera kukhala yosangalatsa komanso yosangalatsa, koma kwa mabanja ambiri omwe apatukana kapena osudzulana, nthawi iyi ikhoza kukhala nthawi yachisoni, kukhumudwitsidwa ndi kusagwirizana ndipo nthawi zambiri imagwidwa pakati pawo ndi ana. Nawa maupangiri 10 apamwamba othandiza mabanja kudutsa nyengo yachikondwerero.

1. Khazikitsani mapulani ndikuwatsatira

Kusasinthasintha kwa ana ndikofunikira kotero konzekerani koyambirira ndikuwamamatira. Mwanjira imeneyi pamakhala mwayi wochepa wokwiya komanso kusokoneza ana ndipo ana amadziwa zomwe angayembekezere popanda zokhumudwitsa.

2. Osayang'ana kumbuyo

Yesetsani kuyerekezera nthawi ya tchuthiyi ndi yomwe musanapatuke. Kusintha kungakhale chinthu chabwino ndipo palibe chifukwa choganizira zakale. Uwu ndi moyo wanu watsopano, zitha kukhala zosiyana, koma palibe chifukwa choti musavomereze.

3. Yambitsani miyambo yatsopano ya ana anu

Ngati iyi ndi Khrisimasi yanu yoyamba ngati banja latsopano, ino ndi nthawi yabwino kuti mufotokozere miyambo yatsopano yomwe ili yapadera kwa inu ndi ana. Miyambo yabwino ndiyabwino kwa ana ndipo ithandiza kukonzanso miyambo m'njira yabwino kwa aliyense.

4 Khazikitsani malangizo azachuma amphatso

Kumbukirani kuti ndalama sizingagule chikondi. Chifukwa chake musadzikakamize kugula mphatso zomwe simungakwanitse. Khazikitsani bajeti ndipo musayese kupikisana ndi kholo linalo. Pitirizani kulankhulana momasuka ndi wokondedwa wanu za malingaliro a mphatso, ndalama zomwe aliyense akugwiritsa ntchito komanso ngati akuchokera kwa kholo kapena bambo waku North Pole. Izi zidzateteza kuwoloka ndikupewa kukweza kamodzi.

5. Musaiwale banja

Musaiwale kuti anthu ambiri amakonda ana anu ndipo ndi ofunika kwa iwo. Pokhapokha zitakhumudwitsa ana, yesetsani kusunga agogo ndi achibale omwe akuphatikizidwa pamaholide. Koma dziwitsani banja lanu kuti zinthu zitha kuchitidwa mosiyana chaka chino komanso kuti azikhala otsimikiza za makonzedwe atsopanowo pamaso pa inu ndi ana.

6. Ngati muli nokha, musakhale nokha

Musaope kupempha thandizo ndikuwonetsetsa kuti muli ndi mapulani kuti musakhumudwe chifukwa izi zimatha kukhudza ana akamakumverani. Ngati simuli ndi ana anu, fikani kwa anzanu omwe atha kukuvutitsani kuti akuphatikizeni mumadyerero awo achisangalalo.

7. Pitirizani ndi uphungu wanu

Ngati mukukulangizidwa ndikofunikira makamaka munthawi zovutazi kuti muzisamalira nokha komanso ana.

8. Dzisamalire wekha

Idyani bwino ndikukhala otanganidwa. Kukhala wathanzi ndikwabwino pamaumoyo amisangalalo Sangalalani ndi mayendedwe, tengani yoga kapena kalasi ya pilates, pezani zosangalatsa zatsopano kuti musamangoganizira zaumoyo wanu.

9. Osatulutsa thukuta ndi kusangalala!

Ngati ndinu kholo loyambirira zingakhale zovuta kukhala china koma woyipa woyipa. Khalani ndi nthawi yosangalala osati thukuta tating'onoting'ono. Siyani zonyezimira pansi, iwalani mbale ndikupanga zaluso & zamisiri, asiyeni azichedwa mochedwa kuti awonere makanema am'banja limodzi.

10. Gawani nawo chisangalalo

Ndikofunika kuti ana anu adziwe kuti si vuto lawo kuti mwasiyana. Yesetsani kusunga izi nthawi ya tchuthi ndikugawana chisangalalo chomwe akhala nacho ndi wokondedwa wanu ngakhale mutha kumva kupweteka ndikukhalidwa. Yesetsani kuti ana anu azikhala otetezeka komanso osangalala ndi mapulaniwo, ngakhale mukuwona kuti wakale wanu akuchita mopanda nzeru. Ngati mukukaikira, khalani wamkulu. Zithandizira ana anu kumva bwino.